Real Men of Genius

Oscar Wilde


Tragedy features in the lives of so many Real Men of Genius, and it is most especially evident in that of playwright Oscar Wilde. 

In 1895 he had the two hit plays, An Ideal Husband and The Importance of being Earnest running alongside each other.  Both plays featured successful men whose past came back to haunt them.

Yet each man kill the thing he loves

By each let this be heard

Some do it with a bitter look

Some with a flattering word

The coward does it with a kiss

The brave man with a sword

Real Men of Genius - Oscar Wilde

It was while Oscar Wilde was at his zenith that his own double life – which in many parts of today’s world would not attract so much as a turn of the head – shattered his career, led to his imprisonment, and failing health and death at the age of 46.

The Times obituary after his demise in 1900 found that all his pieces had the same quality:  a paradoxical humour and a perverted outlook on life being the most prominent.

Wilde's spirit and health were savaged by the incarceration, and he suffered because of society’s inability to tolerate his sexuality, but he avoided bitterness and held on to his beliefs of love and forgiveness.

Real Men of Genius - Popularity

Although The Times also mentioned in the obituary the revelation of the criminal trials trial in 1895 naturally made the plays impossible for some years, in the 21st century they are highly successful. 

Rather than regarding them as “perverted” they are hugely popular with theatregoers today who enjoy the caricature of what may be regarded today as hypocritical society.


Oscar, I would like to focus in this short interview, if I may, upon your academic life and some of your principal works.  You were, as I understand it, born in Dublin in 1854.  What can you tell us about your education?


In 1864 I entered the Portora School, Enniskillen, before I went up to Trinity College, Dublin in 1871 to read classics.  From there I won a scholarship to Magdalen College, Oxford, where I read Greats.

Real Men of Genius – North America and marriage


Your first book of poetry, Poems, was published in 1881?


Yes, I would have been about 26.  Then I undertook a lecture tour of North America and my play Vera debuted in New York.  My original tour was scheduled to last for four months but extended to twelve.


You married Constance in 1884?


That is so.  By then I had written The Duchess of Padua.  We moved to Chelsea and had two sons, Cyril and Vyvyan.


What were your next works?


From 1887 to 1889 I edited Woman’s World, a popular magazine, during which time I published a collection of children’s stories entitled The Happy Prince and Other Tales.


Was that before Dorian Gray?


The Picture of Dorian Gray was published in its revised form in 1891.  It was a plot that has been described as a Faustian morality tale about the price to be paid for vanity.  It is a story as old as history but which I had given new form.

Real Men of Genius - Theatre


It is your most successful plays on which I would like to concentrate.  You had a close knowledge of contemporary theatre, didn’t you?


I was, I believe, a discriminating theatregoer and had intimate friendships with actors and actresses.  My reputation was built not only on Dorian Gray but also on my plays, Lady Windermere’s Fan, A Woman of No Importance, An Ideal Husband and The Importance of being Earnest.


We have to remind ourselves that a licence was required from the Lord Chamberlain’s office at this time?


That was brought home to me vividly when such a licence was refused for Salome upon the grounds that it portrayed biblical characters.  It was another 35 years before Londoners had the privilege of viewing it on stage.

Real Men of Genius – Lady Windermere’s Fan


Your first big stage hit was with Lady Windermere’s Fan which opened at St James’ Theatre and became an immediate success.  Tell us a little more about it.


Its central character, Mrs Erlynne, is eager to be accepted back into London society.  When Lady Windermere learned that her husband had been secretly supporting Mrs Erlynne financially she leaves him assuming the worst.  It turned out, however, that Mrs Erlynne is in truth Lady Windermere’s estranged mother.

I told the first night audience that I had enjoyed the play immensely as well as their intelligent appreciation of it.


It is said that you were a keen satirist of the upper classes.  You were praised for calling a spade a spade and for lashing vice in Lady Windermere’s Fan, and you famously responded?


I said: I would like to protest against the statement that I have ever called a spade a spade.  The man who did so should be condemned to use one. 

I have also been accused of lashing vice, but I can assure you that nothing was further from my intentions.  Those who have seen Lady Windermere’s Fan will see that if there is one particular doctrine contained in it, it is that of sheer individualism.

It is not for anyone to censure what anyone else does, and everyone should go his own way, to whatever place he chooses, in exactly the way that he chooses.


It is also reported that you assiduously attended the rehearsals of your plays?


And a diligent reviser of them, I might add.

Real Men of Genius – satire


What would you say to the comment that you were a man ahead of his time?


I was surely an aesthete and very well aware of the style of my plays and their characters who epitomised the standard Victorian snobs.  I chose to satirise the English aristocracy with whom I was very familiar.

Real Men of Genius - Oscar Wilde

Polite society wore an insincere mask which was manifested by the easy and empty lives lived by many wealthy people.  Lady Windermere’s Fan and An Ideal Husband deal with secrets and hidden scandals, about blackmail and a man’s failure to share his suffering with his wife.

Real Men of Genius – later works


After the libel trial and your own trials for criminal offences which resulted in your imprisonment, there were two more significant writings?


The first of those was De Profundis , a letter to Bosie (Lord Alfred Douglas) which I was not permitted to send.  The second was my poem The Ballad of Reading Gaol which was published in 1898 under the pseudonym, C33 which stood for Cell Block C, landing 3, cell 3.


Upon your release you left for France?


My health had deteriorated during the last two years.  I stayed in various places and was for a while reunited with Bosie until money ran out.  My last address was  Hotel d’Alsace.

Finally, I contracted cerebral meningitis and died on 30 November 1900.


Sir Peter Hall has written in recent years that your work was like a scenario for your own future life.  You composed it and then lived it, and you recognised the paradox in De Profundis?


I was a man who stood in symbolic relation to the art and culture of my age.  I had realised this for myself at the very dawn of my manhood.

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